People Are Not Like Wine

"I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing."

Out of the Vine they are unbearable, and that's how they remain over time.

To understand why "relationships" fail you've got to go to the "church". Because there they say to the public, "Come as you are, as you were", and forget to remind them, "As I want you to be, as a friend". So they "accept" Jesus and think they don't have to change, because Jesus "loves" them. And when you're no real friend of Sophia, it's only a matter of time for the ego war to begin between you and your "lover". In your mind you'll see the problem as the other only, and your ex is going to be thinking the same of you. Then both of you will be "free" again out there, looking for that "different" girl or guy that at the same time is so the same as you that you'll be able to "succeed" and be "happy", at last.

How am I able to be SO mature?

Grace and persistence.